SETTLE THE UNSETTLE  IN YOUR                                    MARRIAGE 
                      WITH  REVELATION 

THE intention of God on marriage cannot  be understood by our myopic reasoning.    Marriage isn't just a grammar but it is a plan of God that was established from the mystery of His wisdom. Therefore, we cannot define it as just a Mere Union between two opposite sex but as a divine Union that brings two opposite sex together. 
   If marriage isn't a mystery of His Wisdom. How can two different genders from different direction and different  source have the sense of becoming one. This shows that marriage is a vehement foundation that define the destiny of many generation.    It is unfortunate that marriages today have been taken as breakfast or cloth that  someone can just decide to switch anytime because of wrong mentorship and psychology interpretations, coupled with our social exposure that as been installed into our system. Which have impacted virus in many homes. 
   The Account of human in Genesis. Revealed some truth even before God instituted marriage.. 
    Genesis 2:7,15-17
[7]And the LORD God formed man of the dust of the ground, and breathed into his nostrils the breath of life; and man became a living soul.
[15]And the LORD God took the man, and put him into the garden of Eden to dress it and to keep it.
[16]And the LORD God commanded the man, saying, Of every tree of the garden thou mayest freely eat:
[17]But of the tree of the knowledge of good and evil, thou shalt not eat of it: for in the day that thou eatest thereof thou shalt surely die.
  Firstly, God places ADAM in the Garden where everything was made available for his consumption. But only the Forbidden fruit he shouldn't eat. In marriage today, are men not eating the forbidden fruit? 
Second, Adam and Eve are given the authority to rule, to govern and to dominate the earth. This shows that the divine proclamation of God's blessing on human as been sealed ever before marriage came into scene. 
Third, Eve was created, not as a substitute for Adam but as Helper for perfection. This means that women are made to perfect what a man has done or doing. While Adam was made to establish what a woman should perfect. 
   Genesis 2:20-21,23
[20]And Adam gave names to all cattle, and to the fowl of the air, and to every beast of the field; but for Adam there was not found an help meet for him.
[21]And the LORD God caused a deep sleep to fall upon Adam, and he slept: and he took one of his ribs, and closed up the flesh instead thereof;
[23]And Adam said, This is now bone of my bones, and flesh of my flesh: she shall be called Woman, because she was taken out of Man.
  Therefore, if a woman doesn't know why she's a wife of a particular man. A fatal exchange of destiny has been made. 
    Now, the union between man are woman can never be perfect without God. Because He has the Master plan. 
   If any marriage will last, stand and reveal God's predestined Glory.
1. The Mystery of marriage must be well understood
2. The Purpose of marriage by the Master (God) must be unraveled. 
3. We must not dilute the truth of why ADAM and EVE responsibilities are different. 
    It amazed me today why Some men think that the fact that they can pay bride price, means they are ready for marriage.  
     Some believe that as far as they have their house, car and job, they are ready for marriage.  Did Adam has house. It was God that made his abode. Marriage goes beyond all these materialistic mentality. Readers, don't get this swisted. This article is about the depth of marriage. 
   Brethren, Marriage is a ministry and you need the Wisdom and knowledge  of God to succeed. You don't go into marriage based on how much you have in your bank account or the house and the cars you have. These is why marriage has been taken hostage. Some Christian marriage didn't last  3 months because of material things. 
  Brethren, Your marriage is supposed to be a place that heals your spouse and not one that inflicts more pain or sends them to the past. It is supposed to be the arms that mend and not the one that damages.
  It should be a comfort zone in time of storms. It should be an abode of God's glory that's full of peace and satisfaction.   You need to understand that the fact that you can pay for something does not mean you can afford it... 
      Ephesians 5:28-32
[28]So ought men to love their wives as their own bodies. He that loveth his wife loveth himself.
[29]For no man ever yet hated his own flesh; but nourisheth and cherisheth it, even as the Lord the church:
[30]For we are members of his body, of his flesh, and of his bones.
[31]For this cause shall a man leave his father and mother, and shall be joined unto his wife, and they two shall be one flesh.
[32]This is a great mystery: .
     Affording comes with maintenance and responsibilities. You can pay for bride price but the real question is, can you afford to keep your woman as God designed her.
   It is not about having the latest or most expensive car, it’s about riding happily and laughing together as you journey.
    The blessings of  Marriage is not about impregnating your wife alone, but being a good example to the child you bring into this world, by first respecting the woman you call your wife, loving and caring for her, cherishing and appreciating her before diapers and wipes. 
  It is now the right time for ladies to know that marriage is not about how beautiful you are or the standard of your exposure. Neither your academic degrees nor your profile in the society or how good you are in bed as we teach today forgetting that all those things are formality and not a pillar,  but how you talk to your man, respect him, make him feel like a king, how you turn that house into a palace for him, how you praise, acknowledge  and honour him. 
    1 Peter 3:1,5-6
[1]Likewise, ye wives, be in subjection to your own husbands; that, if any obey not the word, they also may without the word be won by the conversation of the wives;
[5]For after this manner in the old time the holy women also, who trusted in God, adorned themselves, being in subjection unto their own husbands:
[6]Even as Sara obeyed Abraham, calling him lord: whose daughters ye are, as long as ye do well, and are not afraid with any amazement.
 No matter how anybody can sugarcoated it, forget about your status.You will always be under your husband. 
1 Corinthians 11:8-9
[8]For the man is not of the woman; but the woman of the man.
[9]Neither was the man created for the woman; but the woman for the man.
Ephesians 5:23
[23]For the husband is the head of the wife, even as Christ is the head of the church: and he is the saviour of the body.
    Genesis 3:16
[16]Unto the woman he said, I will greatly multiply thy sorrow and thy conception; in sorrow thou shalt bring forth children; and thy desire shall be to thy husband, and he shall rule over thee.
     The most handsome crown a man wants to wear is the woman who respects him and knows how to talk to him, who makes time to pray for him, who encourages him. 
Proverbs 31:10-31
[10]Who can find a virtuous woman? for her price is far above rubies.
[11]The heart of her husband doth safely trust in her, so that he shall have no need of spoil.
[12]She will do him good and not evil all the days of her life.
[13]She seeketh wool, and flax, and worketh willingly with her hands.
[14]She is like the merchants' ships; she bringeth her food from afar.
[15]She riseth also while it is yet night, and giveth meat to her household, and a portion to her maidens.
[16]She considereth a field, and buyeth it: with the fruit of her hands she planteth a vineyard.
[17]She girdeth her loins with strength, and strengtheneth her arms.
[18]She perceiveth that her merchandise is good: her candle goeth not out by night.
[19]She layeth her hands to the spindle, and her hands hold the distaff.
[20]She stretcheth out her hand to the poor; yea, she reacheth forth her hands to the needy.
[21]She is not afraid of the snow for her household: for all her household are clothed with scarlet.
[22]She maketh herself coverings of tapestry; her clothing is silk and purple.
[23]Her husband is known in the gates, when he sitteth among the elders of the land.
[24]She maketh fine linen, and selleth it; and delivereth girdles unto the merchant.
[25]Strength and honour are her clothing; and she shall rejoice in time to come.
[26]She openeth her mouth with wisdom; and in her tongue is the law of kindness.
[27]She looketh well to the ways of her household, and eateth not the bread of idleness.
[28]Her children arise up, and call her blessed; her husband also, and he praiseth her.
[29]Many daughters have done virtuously, but thou excellest them all.
[30]Favour is deceitful, and beauty is vain: but a woman that feareth the LORD, she shall be praised.
[31]Give her of the fruit of her hands; and let her own works praise her in the gates.
     The most beautiful clothes that can dress up a wife are the arms of the husband she loves, which make her feel like a queen. Arms to which she is the sole proprietor.. 
1 Peter 3:7-9
[7]Likewise, ye husbands, dwell with them according to knowledge, giving honour unto the wife, as unto the weaker vessel, and as being heirs together of the grace of life; that your prayers be not hindered.
[8]Finally, be ye all of one mind, having compassion one of another, love as brethren, be pitiful, be courteous:
[9]Not rendering evil for evil, or railing for railing: but contrariwise blessing; knowing that ye are thereunto called, that ye should inherit a blessing.
      Brethren, don't try to change or amend God's design  on marriage. The foundation as been laid. To function perfectly in His Divine  plan and design, is when you seek to understand the wisdom of God. 
    Let's save our marriage from darkness. Let's save our marriage  from LUST of the world. Let's save our marriage from wrong mentorship and soothsayers . Let's save our marriage from destruction because it determine the greatness of many generations. THAT-ALL-MAY-BE-ONE ( THE LIGHT MINISTRY) 
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