1st Peter 1:8...
  Finally, be ye all of one mind, having compassion one of another, love as brethren, be pitiful, be courteous:
 To Encourage means to inspire with strength of purpose. The genesis of marital discouragement for couples can be traced to inability to appreciate their differences as a man and woman in a home. 
Know today Couples, that you are two imperfect being that agreed to become one in every thing. 
   Such as, in working on God's purpose for your lives, in achieving goals that will enhanced your family, in raising your Children in godly way, in managing all availability resources for the growth of your home, in performing your rites, in making your dreams a reality, in friends management. 
  Couples that encourage each other are couples that value their relationships and understand their difference. 
  Colossians 3:13 - 15  Forbearing one another, and forgiving one another, if any man have a quarrel against any: even as Christ forgave you, so also do ye.
And above all these things put on charity, which is the bond of perfectness.
And let the peace of God rule in your hearts, to the which also ye are called in one body; and be ye thankful.
  As couple, you must be teachable to learn, understand and appreciate each other if you will truly encourage one another. 
  Another way to encourage each other is to understand the unique nature of individual. The way and manners in which men need encouragement is different from the way woman want it. Take for instance, your husband may need verbal encouragement while all that you're busy doing is prayer. Yes, he needs prayer that is spiritual but say something that will make him to know that you believe in his leadership and dreams. In other coin, your wife may need attention on her project or wisdom on how she can make her dream work while all you do Is giving her money and making love with her. You're not getting it right, that is where understanding comes in. " Ability to read through someone and know what to apply". 
As couples, take time to understand; and know how your spouse need to be encouraged for you to enjoy your marriage beyond expectations. When we know what it truly means to be a couple, then we can effectively enjoy our marriage relationship that will glorify God.
  As simple as the word ENCOURAGEMENT sounds, it can break any home if is not properly understood and applied.
   As couples, Build alter of prayer. One of the myth that as led many couples and youths astry is that prayer is not so important. Hmm, permit me to change your orientation by revealing this hard truth unto you. 70℅ of marriage is spiritual and it can only be control with prayer. One mistake you can make as an adult is to marry an unbeliever. What do I mean? Someone who doesn't take God serious but only social life and fun. If you're married as you are reading this article, in your home build an alter of prayer. Install prayer system into the life of your children and watch them growing in it. 
Hear what God says about Abraham in Genesis 18:18-19.... And the LORD said, Shall I hide from Abraham that thing which I do;
Seeing that Abraham shall surely become a great and mighty nation, and all the nations of the earth shall be blessed in him?
For I know him, that he will command his children and his household after him, and they shall keep the way of the LORD, to do justice and judgment; that the LORD may bring upon Abraham that which he hath spoken of him..
  Do you even know that every corrupt community and society emanated from family system? Couples, the best form of prayer is to pray according to God's word for your life, for your family and children. 
   Now; as an adult, if you think that marriage is a joke, you better don't bother entering into it or else you will be  miserable in life. Marriage is a perfect institution that God Created for two impacfect different people. How can they fulfill the assignment, is to have smooth relationship with the creator. 
Jeremiah 33:3.. Call unto me, and I will answer thee, and shew thee great and mighty things, which thou knowest not.
  I pity some Couples cursing each other because of little disagreement. Instead to pray to be able to see the clearer picture. Building an Alter of prayer in your marriage is much more important than morning and night devotion that as become a memory verse.. 
 Alter of prayer is inviting God's presence. To experience His divine leadership in your home. An alter of prayer is to invoke God's power into your family for settlement. Only Couples that encourage each other are the only couple that can build an alter of prayer in their home. Encourage each other to enjoy God's leading in your marriage.
Have a blessed day
  The Light Ministry
Written by E.B.Victor
Info@ thelight_ministry@yahoo.com
Website: www.thelightglobalministry.com

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